Wealth, Happiness, Google

I’m fascinated by the two founders of Google. Probably the biggest reason I like to think about them is that I’m the same age as they are – born in 1973. What they’ve already achieved in their lifetimes is incredible. I also believe some positive “peer” pressure from them is helpful whenever I need some motivation.

However, what I don’t want to fixate upon – and this is easy to do – is their enormous, mind-boggling, Solomonic wealth. I am convinced they’ve earned every bit of it because millions of us use their powerful products (for free) every day. But what is not practical or beneficial is if multitudes of men and women on this globe are merely inspired (to try) to become enormously rich ourselves – at least not in terms of monetary wealth. At a very basic level, the world simply doesn’t have enough resources to support legions of super-rich people. We can’t all be billionaires (or millionaires) if we don’t want to strip the world bare.

However, as I realized upon reading an excellent Orion magazine article (sorry I can’t find the specific article), human beings do feel great happiness when they “possess” a nice, big healthy surplus of “riches.” In fact, we are probably spiritually and biologically inclined to be most satisfied when we feel “rich.” But the kind of riches we’re talking about is not the ability to buy whatever we want. Instead, it’s the ability to appreciate, understand and experience a treasure trove of things. This kind of riches is something all people the world over could potentially enjoy, such as: the ability to read, draw, write, and create art. To get a good education and go as far as your ambition takes you. To understand the world’s history, read its greatest books and see its greatest art, architecture and exotic animals. To enjoy family and friends and a neighborhood in community.

Yes, these things are still out of reach for the world’s poor. But rather than encouraging everyone to simply pursue increased material production and consumption worldwide, why not make the goal to increase everyone’s ability to understand and appreciate things? After basic needs are taken care of, (food, shelter and healthcare) we don’t need to buy an increasing number of things to live a fulfilled life. Thoreau showed this vividly in Walden by living a simple life in a shed surrounded by great books and good food.

While most of us won’t be happy living in a shed, I think Americans in particular could benefit from seeing how other countries use their resources in a way that makes everyone feel richer and happier. Europe, for example, spends lots of money on building and maintaining beautiful buildings that last centuries. It’s a pleasure to stroll through these parts of a city and feel a sense of shared history, and mutual appreciation of their beauty. In contrast, driving in your own luxury car to a strip mall with mediocre architecture to buy something to bring back to your big home doesn’t promote as much happiness on either an individual or community level.

In sum, thank you Google founders for bringing us your amazing products  You’ve earned your fantastic wealth. But for all of us who aren’t billionaires – we need to recognize that we too already possess all that is required to live truly satisfied, meaningful and “rich” lives.

 

Buying a Cheap Car Makes You Happier

Thanks to our baby-boomer parents who paved the entire country and decimated public transportation, today most adults in America need access to a car one way or the other. My wife and I went eleven years as a one-car family. But now with two kids at home and another due this June (yikes) we finally realized we needed to get another one.

We’d prefer to rent a car when we needed one (like Zip Cars) but they aren’t close by to our house. I also experimented with riding the bus to the train to get to work but after missing the bus a few times and then being stuck I knew getting a car was the way to go.

The big question was: what type of car? Currently our family automobile is a newer Subaru Outback and we’re very happy with how it can carry all of us around with its all-wheel drive. But for my “new used” car all I needed was something that would take me 8 minutes over to the train station which I then happily take into downtown while doing some reading.

It became clear that what I should look for is: a Beater. Yes, I scoped out Craigslist to find the cheapest car I could that would still be basically reliable and decently safe. After just one day of searching I found a fantastic automobile that brings me great pleasure every time I get inside and drive it to the Max station.  I love that: it cost me only $800, has 230,000 miles on it, has working airbags, looks decent, and does not require any washing. When other drivers ding my doors, I just smile and laugh. The windshield is cracked, the radio is terrible, and it makes squeaky noises when I drive it.

Overall though, compared to the “best” car I drove when I was a lawyer for a company in Silicon Valley – an Audi A4 – I get at least 50 times more satisfaction from this beater. Funny how that works. Here it is. (Not so bad is it!)

Seattle, Washington

I had an excellent experience this afternoon taking a “Bolt Bus” up from Portland to Seattle for an immigration lawyers conference. This bus had wifi, outlets for every passenger, leather seats and a bunch of nice people onboard. Plus, it was only about $20 each way. The experience was excellent and I was able to get work done and wasn’t as tired if I had driven myself up. In fact, it was much more enjoyable than flying (no security lines) and faster than the train.

Our conference is being held at the Seattle University School of Law. I was able to walk around the campus on my way to dinner and it’s a beautiful place. I think the architecture of this university is phenomenal – lots of glass and brick and there was a funky modern chapel (it’s a Jesuit school) next to a big pool of peaceful water.

The school is set in an urban area – called Capitol Hill and I was able to choose from several inviting restaurants: “Von Traps” German sausage place, an Irish pub and a French-influenced cafe/bar called “Cafe Presse.” This cafe has rave reviews online for both food and its authentic French vibe, such as “this is probably the closest thing to a Parisian street cafe in Seattle.” I got myself an excellent Croque Madame and a beer.

Rather than read, watch tv or do work here in my hotel room, I decided to memorialize my experience here. Traveling solo certainly inspires a desire to observe and record.

Downtown Portland is a Great Place to Work

Since I’ve had an office in Portland for the past year or so I’ve found that I always look forward to coming in to work. I take the Max train for a 15 minute ride each morning and love how I don’t have to worry about fighting traffic or finding parking. Then the atmosphere in Portland is always stimulating and energizing.

As my immigration practice grows, I’m meeting more and more people from all over the world and Portland attracts many fantastic people with fascinating international backgrounds.

As for dress code? Lawyers usually dress up more than the average Pacific northwest hipster but I’m still only sporting a tie on special occasions.

Want to Enjoy Life More? Deepen Your Understanding of Things.

Last week I finished Hemingway’s excellent novel, “The Sun Also Rises.” He’s become one of my favorite authors because I understand the basics of what makes his writing powerful, unique, and beautiful.

I was able to develop this understanding simply by reading another one of his books, “A Moveable Feast.” There, he laid out his approach to writing. When he was first developing his style, he was inspired by the impressionist paintings at the Musee d’Orsay in Paris. He liked how these painters – Cezanne in particular – didn’t focus on trying to capture every detail but instead formed an impression of a place or a moment. His goal was to do the same thing with writing. So he decided to focus on writing “one true sentence” at a time and was able to turn his simple descriptions into powerful experiences for the reader.

Before I understood what Hemingway was doing I didn’t appreciate his work as much. The lesson for me is that a deeper understanding of something promotes a much greater level of satisfaction. I’ve seen similar messages in the Tiger Mom’s emphasis on hard work leading to true freedom and mastery. Similarly, Cal Newport lays out an excellent case on why skill-building, rather than pursuing an ephemeral passion, is the best way to make progress and truly enjoy your career.

Three Key Lessons from the World Domination Summit

This past weekend I attended my first World Domination Summit.  Chris Guillebeau and his team delivered big time and I met some fantastic people.  Here are the three central lessons I took away with me.

1. Do what you care about and do it well.  Simply being at the summit and seeing how it was run was one big workshop on excellence.  The entire weekend was strategically planned and executed brilliantly.  You could tell a lot of thought went into every single element: the design of the notebooks, the contents of the gift bags, the selection of speakers, the choice of venue and the amount of free time we had.  Experiencing such a well run and well led event — staffed by motivated volunteers and operated as a non profit venture — was challenging and inspiring.

2. The world has a huge supply of remarkable people.  I was consistently impressed by the caliber of the people I would randomly meet at the Summit.  I enjoyed sitting by new people during each session.  As an extrovert, I’d always be the first to strike up a conversation and find out where the other was from and what he or she was up to.  Without fail, each person was doing something very interesting and was abnormally helpful and enthusiastic.  I wish I had more time at the Summit to continue to connect with such great people.  But this group of folks is extremely accessible online and that’s where I’ll continue to seek them out.

3. Pour yourself into a worthy cause and really help others.  My favorite talk was given by  Scott Harrison, the CEO of Charity:Water.  He shared a compelling story about how he pursued a life of selfish indulgence for a decade but then felt God calling him to something more.  He joined Mercy Ships as a volunteer photographer and saw that poor people throughout Africa were suffering enormously from diseases resulting from dirty water.  He then embarked on an impassioned effort to build a nonprofit organization that would be remarkably different from other charities.  It would give 100% of all its funds directly to needy people and connected projects — no spending on overhead.  He also operates his organization with complete transparency and shows exactly where each dollar donors give is being spent in Africa.  I want to be involved with organizations like his.  He is helping people in this world who need it the most and showing all nonprofits how to serve others more effectively.

I’ve already signed up for the next Summit in 2013. See you there.

 

Resources for How to Have the Best Year of Your Life by Volunteering and Traveling Overseas

Yesterday I led a workshop at the World Domination Summit in Portland, Oregon. The Summit is an annual gathering of travelers, entrepreneurs and creative people. Chris Guillebeau is the man behind this weekend and he is a prolific blogger, traveler and author.

My workshop was entitled “How to Have the Best Year of Your Life by Volunteering and Traveling Overseas.”  It went through key reasons why you should take the time to make a year of service happen. We also touched on what types of opportunities are available (an enormous amount) and how to pull it off.

Here are the key resources I relied upon for the talk.  I recommend anyone interested in investigating a year overseas read these books and check out these websites.

Books:

  • Vagabonding by Rolf Potts
  • Half the Sky by Nicholas D. Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn
  • Art of Non Conformity by Chris Guillebeau

Websites

Organizations recommended by Half the Sky:

Inspiration:

 

 

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